Tag: Zen
Identity Crisis?
by Shane on Jul.27, 2009, under Shane's Posts
Lately I’ve been a little too introspective about the “Zen of Shane” – What really makes up who I am. Along the way, I’ve been having a hard time really defining what I am. No so much, what I enjoy, but Who I am. I suppose there are many different ways of looking at the picture. Yes, I’m a Dad, and a Husband. Those are probably the two first things that come to mind. But I don’t think I’m remarkable in either one of those categories. And frankly those categories alone are unremarkable as well. I’m an employee – and I think a good one – but again (and apparently) not all that remarkable in that category either. I’m a friend – but only to those who can stand to be around me for long. I know full well that when the phone rings, it’s not anyone who cares about me or wants to hang out with me, it’s either for Amber or someone who wants money from me. Even in that, I’m unremarkable. And maybe that’s just it. The only constant throughout is that I’m unremarkable. Not the best title to wear, but certainly not the worst.